Dreaming of a life without high-functioning anxiety

High functioning anxiety. I can feel it right now. Punching into my train of thought, trying to slow the words, steady the flow, drop an anchor on this blog post, prevent me from stepping out and declaring that it’s even there at all. “Hide me!” whispers anxiety, “Don’t let them know I’m here.” As if […]

Nobody can save you, but you – Take back your power to tackle anxiety

When it comes to tackling anxiety, I have tried many approaches. As a child, I pushed it away. I hated the feeling that I was weird, different, and a little bit too quiet and shy. Instead, I placed a huge amount of pressure on myself to fit in and be like everybody else. It didn’t […]

What is an anxiety-reducing lifestyle

Every day you go about your life, living in a way that makes sense to you. You get up, you eat, you breathe, you do stuff, and you sleep. We all do. The way you choose to go about your days – the things you choose to do – make up your lifestyle. This includes […]

When anxiety is your comfort zone

Anxiety. I’ve often wondered how my life would be without it. Free, easy, relaxed … I’m getting butterflies in my stomach just imagining it. Much as I long for relief from the twisted tightness I’ve come to know so well over the years, the thought of freedom immediately makes me feel anxious. Weird, isn’t it? […]

Anxiety versus Freedom – or do we need them both?

Have you ever experienced freedom whilst feeling anxious? Is that even possible??? I ask you this question because freedom is something I have been thinking about a lot lately, and especially so these past two days since joining Natalie Sisson’s 10 day Freedom Blog Challenge. In yesterday’s post I made some important realisations. I was […]

Inside my Anxious Mind – Are you sure?

This is post two in a five-part series called ‘inside my anxious mind’, within which I am exploring my experience with different aspects of anxiety. I love to be able to shift my perspective, and hope that my writing also helps you to shift yours. In this post I will be exploring the part of […]

Inside my anxious mind – fears and dreams

This is the first post in a five-part series called ‘inside my anxious mind’, within which I am exploring my experience with different aspects of anxiety. It is my aim to discover a new perspective from which to view this behaviour. This first post will look at contrast – the space between what I want […]

Being vulnerable – the most rewarding and most difficult thing we can ever do

According to Brene Brown, “Vulnerability is the birthplace of love, belonging, joy, courage, empathy and creativity. It is the source of hope, empathy, accountability and authenticity.” Apparently to be vulnerable takes great strength and is strewn with rewards. To be vulnerable does not make us weak like many people believe – it is instead the […]

Three healthy ways to approach anxiety

Anxiety has been a bit of a theme in my blog this week … I have explored what causes anxiety and three unhealthy ways some of us avoid anxiety. To wrap it up, I figured it makes sense to find some healthy ways of approaching anxiety. I was thinking about this last night, and I found […]